Clare phone me at work today and told me she was moving out. Our marriage has been in trouble for at least a year. It was getting to the point where something had to be done, even sharing a house was no longer working. So whilst sad, it was no great surprise to me.

It's all been pretty amicable so far, we have argued when it comes to sorting out the material things, and nothing can resolve the emotional side of things, but at least being honest and practicle seems to be working for both of us. I hope things carry on this way.

I certainly feel no animosity towards Clare, these things happen.